What a marvelous thing a promise is! When a person makes a
promise, she reaches out into an unpredictable future and makes
one thing predictable: she will be there even when being there
costs her more than she wants to pay. When a person makes a
promise, he stretches himself out into circumstances that no one
can control and controls at least one thing: he will be there no
matter what the circumstances turn out to be. With one simple
word of promise, a person creates an island of certainty in a
sea of uncertainty.
When a person makes a promise, she stakes a claim on her
personal freedom and power.
When you make a promise, you take a hand in creating your own
future.
— Lewis Smedes, "The Power of Promises," in A Chorus of
Witnesses, edited by Long and Plantinga, (Eerdmans, 1994)
The future is not some place we are going, but one we are
creating. The paths are not to be found, but made. And the
activity of making them changes both the maker and their
destination.
John Schaar
Word for
the Day
Listening to the news or watching it on
TV, reading the newspapers and magazines that come our way,
provide us with plenty of disheartening information. The
"future" can seem bleak, even dark and frightening. We
all know the future is unpredictable and uncertain; we also know
how much we want to predict the future and make it safe and
certain.
Add to the "news" personal ups and
downs, health issues, work issues, the give and take of our
relationships with others and the brightness or darkness of the
future, the unpredictability of it all becomes even more
magnified.
In this Easter Season, not too many days
removed from Good Friday, consider the Apostles, consider Mary,
the Mother of Jesus, consider the disciples and friends who had
welcomed Jesus into Jerusalem in triumph and then witnessed his
brutal death.
As they lay Jesus in the tomb, could any
future seem more bleak, darker, or more frightening? On that
Good Friday they buried Hope, they buried Love, and they had to
fear that they could suffer the same fate if they remained too
closely identified with Jesus. We are told that they hid
themselves "for fear."
And then, the truly unpredictable
happened: Jesus rose from the dead. God did something entirely
new and unexpected. And all futures, all attempts to predict
futures, changed. When God is in the mix, new and wonderful
futures are possible, can be created even when it seems
impossible or improbable.
Inasmuch as a man and a woman can shape
and control at least one thing (their presence in every future)
by their promise, so too can every man and woman of faith depend
on the presence of God in every future moment (whether
unpleasant - Good Friday - or extraordinary - Easter). We
remember the prayer that is Psalm 23: "Yea though I walk through
the valley of the shadow of death, thou art with me, thy rod and
thy staff, they comfort me." We remember Christmas: "God with
us." We rejoice in the news "Alleluia! Christ is risen."
May you find the power of your promise
to each other strengthened and affirmed in this Easter Season;
may you find the power of your promise transformed in the light
of the Death and Resurrection of Jesus. May the joy of Easter
fill your hearts and your home. May the promise of Easter
brighten your future together.